My "first" was by myself as I learned about DIY orgasms at sleepovers with my small circle of bffs when I was a preteen and during my early teens I do it often before going to sleep in the privacy of my room. I also learned about looking up and going to online porn sites by the time I was twelve but I only looked at porn vids to help me orgasm when I was alone in the house without my parents. I was lucky that I never go caught by my parents, like when you do actually consider how often I did it, occasionally to porn vids in my room but mostly without looking at porn at that age at night.